Melia, as Dream and others here could testify (but I hope they won't...), I am always trying to figure stuff out, and always screwing up, and I haven't got the excuse that I'm new.
I'm just tarded.
But really, there are saints around here who will help with anything, anytime.
So welcome, and just holler if you need anything. Well, really, no need to holler; asking quietly, politely and nicely COULD work.
Or holler.