I'm sorry...are we watching the same show? It's a COMPETITION for $500,000. Everyone on the show (and probably most of us on this board) is pretty self absorbed. It's not "wanting to stick a knife in someone" to choose a path which hurts a "friend," but which may ultimately lead to victory for yourself. I don't think Shelly was shocked that Jordan was hurt. I think she was shocked about the vitriol that Jordan spewed. The reality is: given the choice, Jeff or Jordan would have taken the other to F2. Why should Shelly participate in that plan? And humility side of what? Who should've been humble? Should Shelly bow down because Jeff deigned to favor her with a few kind words. I'm not sure how much of the live feeds you watch, but he's a homophobic, borderline racist person. Shelly is no princess herself, believe me. However, Jeff began to believe his own hype, got careless, and went home. I'm not really sure why there's so much emotion on these message boards, but whatever. The good news is I'm able to keep all of this in perspective. *returning to the real world, where things like education matter*