Dude, I'm married. And my husband is not that stupid ok. But then again, neither am I. If I am gonna talk shyt to any man I better know how to back it or when to shut the heck up. I, my friend, will fight a man if I have to. Although I believe folks should keep their hands to themselves, I am not the turn the other cheek kinda girl. I don't look at things as "oh I'm a girl and you can't do that to me." If you play by those rules, you need to watch your back, because a large majority of the world is dog eat dog. How did you come to the conclusion that I 'obviously' think it is ok for a man to physically intimidate a woman? You are wrong Miss Cleo, so stop trying to read my mind. He did not get physical with her, he got out of his chair. He didn't push her, he didn't slap her, he didn't grab her, he didn't lay a finger on her, so how did he physically intimidate her? She did not respect his boundaries with her verbal barrages and he responded, oh well...