Last year I recall people apologizing for Will's behaviour as not being indicitive of all gay people. My nephew is gay and I have met and hung out with a lot of his friends, most are gay. His freinds run the gambet from flambouant to quiet. It is just like everything else. Ivette doesn't represent all gay women, nor all latinos. Beau doesn't represent all gay men, nor all black men. My point of this is just that it is sad state of affairs when people feel they must apologize or state that what we are seeing isn't how all of a certain demographic is. I understand what your are saying and have seen a couple posts that might have made you feel you needed to say this. Intelligent people should be able to realize that these people are not representative of their whole demographic. I appreciate your post and your point of view. :-)