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2 minutes ago, Lamasquerade said:

Yeah,  some posters feel the need to make comments on other posters..can't separate the fact that we are commenting on house observations only no matter how we see it.

 

Ironic that you are commenting about other posters in your post. LOL!

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3 minutes ago, WOC said:

 

Ironic that you are commenting about other posters in your post. LOL!

The difference is that I am not analyzing them or judging them like you do. You can disagree with me any time, and state an opposing opinion about a hg, but don't comment about the poster. That's trolling.

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16 minutes ago, Roli said:

 

OMG, it was a JOKE.  

 

I have great relationships with my wonderful daughters-in-law.  In fact I'll be leaving in a few minutes to meet up with one of them.  

 

I raised my kids the way my mom raised me.  From the moment they were born i began getting them ready to be on their own.....to leave the nest.   It was gradual, of course, and I've always let them know that I'm there as a safety net.  They now make their own choices and get the credit if they're good choices and deal with the consequences if they're not.  I give them advice when asked and otherwise keep my opinion to myself.  

 

So, thanks for the parenting "advice", but according to my offspring, i'm good in that department.  :)

 

 

I was just going by what you said...an LOL would have let me know you were making a joke...how we think about escorting is all socially derived...and the reason women do it is too. Most people do not think about that.

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1 hour ago, Lamasquerade said:

The difference is that I am not analyzing them or judging them like you do. You can disagree with me any time, and state an opposing opinion about a hg, but don't comment about the poster. That's trolling.

 

So why are you commenting about me?

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59 minutes ago, WOC said:

 

So why are you commenting about me?

Lamasquerade was hoping that you would not focus on him/her but on the content of the post. You were not called a troll...you were informed that focus on the poster...is trolling.

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1 hour ago, NYROSE said:

Lamasquerade was hoping that you would not focus on him/her but on the content of the post. You were not called a troll...you were informed that focus on the poster...is trolling.

 

I know what she meant and I know what trolling is. I've never, to my knowledge, called any particular poster out. I have generalized when commenting on the excessive comments about Jess' looks and I've replied when people got all Josh (sensitive for those who don't get sarcasm) about it. 

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10 minutes ago, WOC said:

 

I know what she meant and I know what trolling is. I've never, to my knowledge, called any particular poster out. I have generalized when commenting on the excessive comments about Jess' looks and I've replied when people got all Josh (sensitive for those who don't get sarcasm) about it. 

 

Ok, I did notice I called her out on the two/too thing (I'm sure it was a typo). But that's always been a pet peeve of mine. So if I hurt your feelings Lamasquerade I apologize. See, I tried to make nice. 

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10 hours ago, Roli said:

 

OMG, it was a JOKE.  

 

I have great relationships with my wonderful daughters-in-law.  In fact I'll be leaving in a few minutes to meet up with one of them.  

 

I raised my kids the way my mom raised me.  From the moment they were born i began getting them ready to be on their own.....to leave the nest.   It was gradual, of course, and I've always let them know that I'm there as a safety net.  They now make their own choices and get the credit if they're good choices and deal with the consequences if they're not.  I give them advice when asked and otherwise keep my opinion to myself.  

 

So, thanks for the parenting "advice", but according to my offspring, i'm good in that department.  :)

 

 

Yeah, what she said.... :P

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4 hours ago, WOC said:

 

I know what she meant and I know what trolling is. I've never, to my knowledge, called any particular poster out. I have generalized when commenting on the excessive comments about Jess' looks and I've replied when people got all Josh (sensitive for those who don't get sarcasm) about it. 

Seriously?  Did you type that with a straight face? Ok.. LOL does that make everything cool?  If I put an LOL then it's all good?

 

Anyway... I am not impressed with the way everyone turned their backs on Cody.  All on here should know by now that he is not my favorite HG, but I can not stand the MOB mentality.  The boy was obviously alone, sad and probably feeling alienated and a little humanity and kindness towards another goes a long way.  I hope that when these people watch their season, most will hang their head in shame. (though I doubt it)

 

 Why kick a man when he is obviously down. Game is one thing, complete lack of compassion is another.  Shame. 

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11 minutes ago, PF364 said:

Seriously?  Did you type that with a straight face? Ok.. LOL does that make everything cool?  If I put an LOL then it's all good?

 

 

I was hoping this was put to bed, but thank you for inserting your opinion. You've read the rules so I'm assuming that it's ok to give your opinion about another poster's opinion. I know you got your mangina all stretched out when I said the women here seem to be jealous of Jess. It was my opinion and I was poking fun. You're awfully defensive about stuff when you don't like what people post. I've noticed that in a few of your posts. The Jess thing was my opinion because there are some posters that bring up her looks, etc. constantly. It was my opinion, that's it. Take it with a grain of salt, or don't. If I have to leave because I personally attacked you, oh well. But I don't feel I should have to sit back and let people imply I'm a troll because they don't agree with and/or think I shouldn't give my opinion. I feel Lamasquerade doesn't like me cause I called her on a few things she's posted. Hey, if you're going to say someone is too stupid don't say they're "two" stupid. Do I even have to explain why? I'm sure it was a typo because she doesn't seem uneducated. But it's a pet peeve of mine, usually I could care less about typos. To Lamasquerade, I truly apologize if I hurt your feelings in any way. Now I'm done with this. If asked to leave, oh well. Some people here seem genuinely nice. Others are overly sensitive. I'll miss the nice ones.

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1 hour ago, WOC said:

 

I was hoping this was put to bed, but thank you for inserting your opinion. You've read the rules so I'm assuming that it's ok to give your opinion about another poster's opinion. I know you got your mangina all stretched out when I said the women here seem to be jealous of Jess. It was my opinion and I was poking fun. You're awfully defensive about stuff when you don't like what people post. I've noticed that in a few of your posts. The Jess thing was my opinion because there are some posters that bring up her looks, etc. constantly. It was my opinion, that's it. Take it with a grain of salt, or don't. If I have to leave because I personally attacked you, oh well. But I don't feel I should have to sit back and let people imply I'm a troll because they don't agree with and/or think I shouldn't give my opinion. I feel Lamasquerade doesn't like me cause I called her on a few things she's posted. Hey, if you're going to say someone is too stupid don't say they're "two" stupid. Do I even have to explain why? I'm sure it was a typo because she doesn't seem uneducated. But it's a pet peeve of mine, usually I could care less about typos. To Lamasquerade, I truly apologize if I hurt your feelings in any way. Now I'm done with this. If asked to leave, oh well. Some people here seem genuinely nice. Others are overly sensitive. I'll miss the nice ones.

I don't want you to leave, not all all.  On the contrary, I appreciate the opinions of others.  I was trying to yank your chain.  It was all in fun, but I guess that's on me.  To me it was part of a good back and forth spirited debate.  Not everyone is going to see eye to eye.  I just didn't like the fact that I was called out for not immediately having respect for ANYONE who served, and I thought I explained my point of view fairly lucidly. We can always agree to disagree and leave it at that.  Hell, I'm getting to old for some of this nonsense.

 

That's why I said I hate not being able to see others faces, emotions, etc... on a forum.  I have tried using those little emojis or whatever they are called, but I really don't like 'em. I would rather a face to face, but hey, this is what we have, right?  Didn't mean to hurt your feelings.  As I have stated before, I am not weak minded, but sometimes I can, and have been cruel.

 

Now, that being said... back to the topic at hand. I had some respect for Josh i.e. Cody tonight on BBAD.  He basically said, (and I am paraphrasing here) "I hate that anyone feels alone.  I wish I could just talk to him, he is a human just like me". Ok, given, that bridge may be burnt, but I think his sentiment was honest.  Of course, then Paul had to enter the conversation and ruin it by, well, just being Paul.

 

Oh, and I swear if Paul blows any more smoke up his own arse, I think he will soon explode... Re: "Let me tell you about life after BB, believe me, I know... You will def need therapy... blah blah blah...this is just like going to war!"  REALLY??  This kid has smoked one to many if you ask me.... But you probably won't.

 

My grammar pet peeve:  Double negatives in a sentence. I guess we all have them. I used to parse my Grandkids sentences in book reports, term papers, letters and the like...and they HATED it. I think they learned though!

 

***Hey, I just noticed that you said I had a mangina... Please don't use that term again.  I find it beyond despicable.  Not joking on that one. I've never referred to you in such a derogatory manner.  How about a little decorum here?

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5 hours ago, WOC said:

 

I was hoping this was put to bed, but thank you for inserting your opinion. You've read the rules so I'm assuming that it's ok to give your opinion about another poster's opinion. I know you got your mangina all stretched out when I said the women here seem to be jealous of Jess. It was my opinion and I was poking fun. You're awfully defensive about stuff when you don't like what people post. I've noticed that in a few of your posts. The Jess thing was my opinion because there are some posters that bring up her looks, etc. constantly. It was my opinion, that's it. Take it with a grain of salt, or don't. If I have to leave because I personally attacked you, oh well. But I don't feel I should have to sit back and let people imply I'm a troll because they don't agree with and/or think I shouldn't give my opinion. I feel Lamasquerade doesn't like me cause I called her on a few things she's posted. Hey, if you're going to say someone is too stupid don't say they're "two" stupid. Do I even have to explain why? I'm sure it was a typo because she doesn't seem uneducated. But it's a pet peeve of mine, usually I could care less about typos. To Lamasquerade, I truly apologize if I hurt your feelings in any way. Now I'm done with this. If asked to leave, oh well. Some people here seem genuinely nice. Others are overly sensitive. I'll miss the nice ones.

Dude, you troll because others don't agree with you, so don't turn it around. As for spelling I spend more time correcting spell check when I make a post so please let me know where I wrote two instead of too. That's not what really bother you though is it? Too bad for you that I think Jessica is nothing more than a fake blow up doll with cheap spider lashes. Take a trip to the east village, 100s of transgenders that look like her. If that's her thing, good for her. You sound like a five year old in your post..lamasquerade this and lamasquerade that. Screw you and troll that you real piece of woc!?!

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On 8/11/2017 at 2:43 PM, Lamasquerade said:

I wonder if Cody slept last night thinking about who Jessica might be butt poking now?  Ewww!

 

I wonder if Cody slept last night realizing that his daughter might be allowed to watch at least part of the show and is seeing that her daddy gave up his time with her this summer to lay around in bed with a Jessica.  

 

I think, or at least hope, that his daughter's mother hasn't let her watch, but even if she didn't watch, she knows that her daddy gave up his time with her.  That kind of stuff can have lasting damage.  He already made the decision that he would live in Texas while his daughter is in Iowa.  That, in itself, is a crappy thing to do.  

 

 

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29 minutes ago, Roli said:

 

I wonder if Cody slept last night realizing that his daughter might be allowed to watch at least part of the show and is seeing that her daddy gave up his time with her this summer to lay around in bed with a Jessica.  

 

I think, or at least hope, that his daughter's mother hasn't let her watch, but even if she didn't watch, she knows that her daddy gave up his time with her.  That kind of stuff can have lasting damage.  He already made the decision that he would live in Texas while his daughter is in Iowa.  That, in itself, is a crappy thing to do.  

 

 

In theory I agree, but that is not always the case.  My daughter's ex lives in Houston Texas now (all my ex-s live in TX! LOL), and he was very abusive not only to her, but to my Grandsons as well.  I appreciate the fact that the Good Lord saw fit to keep him out of their lives, and mine as well (for both of our sakes).  They now have a wonderful stepfather who treats all of them the way they should be treated, and they love him so much.  He is a much better role model and my one Grandson wants to become part of EOD just like his "Daddy".  :)

 

I guess every situation is different, and I certainly don't know the dynamics between Cody and his daughter's mother, but for the sake of this child, I hope all is amicable. 

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41 minutes ago, PF364 said:

In theory I agree, but that is not always the case.  My daughter's ex lives in Houston Texas now (all my ex-s live in TX! LOL), and he was very abusive not only to her, but to my Grandsons as well.  I appreciate the fact that the Good Lord saw fit to keep him out of their lives, and mine as well (for both of our sakes).  They now have a wonderful stepfather who treats all of them the way they should be treated, and they love him so much.  He is a much better role model and my one Grandson wants to become part of EOD just like his "Daddy".  :)

 

I guess every situation is different, and I certainly don't know the dynamics between Cody and his daughter's mother, but for the sake of this child, I hope all is amicable. 

 

If your daughter's ex was abusive, then he is also a crappy father.  

 

Of course if someone is escaping abuse, I wouldn't blame them for leaving.  I'd have a hard time believing that the mother of Cody's daughter was abusive to Cody, especially considering she has custody.  

 

I can understand if there's monetary reason or if someone is deployed, but Cody is a salesman.  He even mentioned that he doesn't make that much money, so it's likely not a specialty position.  His daughter was created in Iowa and that's where she still is.  His family is in Iowa, and I hope that they're part of Cody's daughter's and her mother's support system. Cody decided to live in Texas to be a salesman, and THEN decided that he'd give up his time with his daughter this summer to be on a reality television program for the entire summer.   I'm going to stick by my statement that he's a crappy father.  

 

I'm glad your daughter has found a wonderful person now.  What is an EOD?

 

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16 minutes ago, joystiick said:

 

Every year there's a level of contestant hate directed at one or two players that just seems over-the-top. But, this year is going to a whole new level in my opinion. I believe we are moving into the irrational obsession level. 

 

I agree that the hate toward Paul is over the top.  Also hate toward Josh.  

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3 minutes ago, Roli said:

 

I agree that the hate toward Paul is over the top.  Also hate toward Josh.  

I think hate  is too harsh of a word.  We don't know these people on a personal level, never met them, so how can we hate them.  How about dislike, detest, can't stand them etc.  When I said you were a Jessica hater in another post I meant you had a hate on for stuff she said or did, how she behaved, yet I was accused of calling you a hater.  I don't think I've ever really hated anyone.  An exception would be if someone really harmed or killed someone in my family but that's never happened.  Having said that I really detest Paul and his manipulations and ditto for Josh.  He does not amuse me one bit.

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49 minutes ago, joystiick said:

 

Every year there's a level of contestant hate directed at one or two players that just seems over-the-top. But, this year is going to a whole new level in my opinion. I believe we are moving into the irrational obsession level. 

 

It amuses me.... 

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1 hour ago, Roli said:

 

If your daughter's ex was abusive, then he is also a crappy father.  

 

Of course if someone is escaping abuse, I wouldn't blame them for leaving.  I'd have a hard time believing that the mother of Cody's daughter was abusive to Cody, especially considering she has custody.  

 

I can understand if there's monetary reason or if someone is deployed, but Cody is a salesman.  He even mentioned that he doesn't make that much money, so it's likely not a specialty position.  His daughter was created in Iowa and that's where she still is.  His family is in Iowa, and I hope that they're part of Cody's daughter's and her mother's support system. Cody decided to live in Texas to be a salesman, and THEN decided that he'd give up his time with his daughter this summer to be on a reality television program for the entire summer.   I'm going to stick by my statement that he's a crappy father.  

 

I'm glad your daughter has found a wonderful person now.  What is an EOD?

 

Oh, sorry about that... EOD stand for Explosive Ordnance Disposal.  Basically, a bomb tech. 

 

Do you know what Cody sells?  In my early days, it was alway a Fullerbrush Man!  

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8 minutes ago, PF364 said:

Oh, sorry about that... EOD stand for Explosive Ordnance Disposal.  Basically, a bomb tech. 

 

Do you know what Cody sells?  In my early days, it was alway a Fullerbrush Man!  

 

It's something in construction.  I have no idea what kind of construction.  It could be selling bird houses for all I know.  :D

 

He's a vet.  I wonder why he isn't able to get a job that's more to his satisfaction.  I'm not criticizing any kind of honest work, but if he's not satisfied with it, one would think he'd make a change.  I don't think he's going to get the "job" of Winner of BB19.  It's looking like one of the other "applicants" will win that title.  I wonder what his backup plan is, other than to shack up with someone he met less than two months ago.  

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37 minutes ago, HeleneL said:

I think hate  is too harsh of a word.  We don't know these people on a personal level, never met them, so how can we hate them.  How about dislike, detest, can't stand them etc.  When I said you were a Jessica hater in another post I meant you had a hate on for stuff she said or did, how she behaved, yet I was accused of calling you a hater.  I don't think I've ever really hated anyone.  An exception would be if someone really harmed or killed someone in my family but that's never happened.  Having said that I really detest Paul and his manipulations and ditto for Josh.  He does not amuse me one bit.

 

Honestly, I don't even "detest" any of them.  There are a few I don't much like, but I can't say that I hate or detest them.  That's just too much emotion directed toward someone I don't know personally.  (I don't hate anyone personally either at this point in time.  :))

 

 

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It's something in construction.  I have no idea what kind of construction.  It could be selling bird houses for all I know.  :D

 

He's a vet.  I wonder why he isn't able to get a job that's more to his satisfaction.  I'm not criticizing any kind of honest work, but if he's not satisfied with it, one would think he'd make a change.  I don't think he's going to get the "job" of Winner of BB19.  It's looking like one of the other "applicants" will win that title.  I wonder what his backup plan is, other than to shack up with someone he met less than two months ago.  

I hope that the next month or so (in jury, if not in the house) will bring Cody some clarity.  If not, then I think once he gets out, he just may lose some respect for Jessica, if not all.  She is exactly the type of girl he stated (in the beginning of the season) that he detested.  I don't think she has been totally honest with him.  I don't mind people not disclosing who they are on the outside, i.e. Derrick... But, when you "fall in love" and pledge yourself whole heartedly to someone, it MUST be based on the truth, IMO.

 

If a relationship is not built on a solid foundation, it only seems logical that it will crumble when tremors come along. (Believe you me, after many decades of marriage to my one and only love/best friend, I KNOW there will be tremors)

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