I don't get into race issues much because they are not as prevalent here in Canada. However, I can understand JC's point about explaining how the N word Is just as offensive to her as the M word is to him. Imagine he's got more strikes against him than she has. He's just a small statured person, he's also gay and his accent is difficult to understand what he says at times. She is Black, period. So she goes off all offended about it while he's still trying to explain to her what he was trying to convey. She should get off her high horse and LISTEN.