I think it was a stupid thing for Jason to say, but overall, I think he is a nice guy. He is going to feel horrible when he realizes the magnitude of his words. I tend to judge people by their actions.
Not sure why anyone would vote Cody AFP. He is an ass with no social skills at all. From what I have seen, it is understandable why he does not get along with his family. He appears to be emotionally unstable.