While I'm sure everyone has said things they would not want out there for public consumption, I don't think the slur Caleb posted (publicly, no less) would be one that would occur to most people. Big red flag that something is boiling beneath the surface, I think. But if he is regularly friendly to all folks, I guess it could be a lot worse. Speaking of a red flag and issues boiling beneath the surface, that obsession with Amber, though ...